Monday 21 January 2013

Muhasabah #Part 2


Dalam perhubungan impian, apa yang kita harapkan pastinya berkesudahan dengan Happy Ending kan? Malangnya, seringkali kita sampai di penamat yg berbunyi..

"..kita putus.."
"..sampai di sini.."
"..ceraikan saya.."
"..tak ada jodoh di antara kita.."
"..aku bukan utkmu..kamu berhak dapat yg lebih layak.."

Kita manusia. Manusia merancang. Allah juga merancang. Namun, "Wallahu Khairul Maakirin." ( Allah lah sebaik-baik perancang segala rencana. )

Hubungan pula saya bahagikan kepada dua:

- Hubungan yang diredhai (dah nikah).
- Hubungan tak halal (belum nikah lagi). 

Tapi kedua-dua hubungan ini juga tidak ada jaminan akan kekal. Kedua-dua hubungan ini akan diuji. Siapa yang lemah, pasti tersungkur. Siapa yang tabah, beroleh hikmah.

Cinta bukan milik kita. Sebab bukan milik kitalah, kita tak mampu kawal sepenuhnya.
Saya hanya nampak satu cara untuk kekalkan hubungan cinta.

Gapai cintaNya melalui konsep Tawaqqi

Means, hubungan tak halal automatik belum pasti ada jaminan boleh berjaya sebab jauh dari cintaNya. Jika berjaya ke jinjang pelamin, itu maknanya Allah mahu kamu dan pasangan berubah lebih baik serta siap sedialah; kerna ada ujian-ujian di hadapan sebagai kaffarah dosa-dosa kapel silam. Namun jika tak berjaya, itu bermakna Allah nak kamu kembali muhasabah diri-hilangkan benteng yang menjadi hijab di antara kamu dengan kecintaan kepada Allah. Ya, kesedihan awal-awal itulah kaffarah dosa-dosa. 

Yang dah kahwin, tarbiyyahlah pasangan utk sama-sama jaga hubungan cinta dengan Allah. InsyaAllah kekal lamalah hbgn itu. Jika diuji, ada hikmah. Diuji dengan kesusahan dan kemiskinan, kecelakaan dan musibah. Jika tak diuji, pelik sebab kita hanya hamba. Bercerai juga ujian. Namun, bersyukurlah sebab Allah beri masa untuk kita kecap bahagia bersama-sama. Walaupun sekejap cuma. 

Fahami konsep Tawaqqi.

Apa itu tawaqqi ?
Menurut Ibnu Kathir tawaqqi adalah kata asal untuk taqwa. Bermaksud, "menjaga diri daripada perkara yang tak diingini."
Menurut Muhammad bin Allan, "taqwa ialah mematuhi perintah-perintah Allah dan menghindari larangan-laranganNya dengan mengerjakan setiap yang diperintah, tinggalkan yang dilarang, mengikut kemampuan."

Manakala Saiyidina Umar mengkiaskan hakikat taqwa sebagai "berjalan dengan waspada dan bersungguh-sungguh supaya tidak memijak ataupun terpijak onak dan duri."

Tak perlu bersedih lama. Cinta itu milik Allah. Hari ini Dia tarik rasa cinta dari hati pasangan kamu sehingga tawar hatinya. Sebab, mungkin esok atau lusa Dia campakkan rasa cinta yang lebih segar dalam hati si dia yang setepatnya untuk kamu. Semalam kamu berjalan dengan tidak cermat dan tidak berhati-hati. Hari ini dan esok, waspadalah jangan terpijak atau memijak onak dan duri. Jangan kau kutip lagi serpihan kaca. Buka mata, buka mata hati, guna iman dan tawaqqi. Akhirnya, 'kan kau jumpakan permata.

Protection - Fifteen protective measures Sheytan


Copied from  Allhumdulilah For Everything! on Tuesday, January 1, 2013 at 10:41pm ·

Protection - Fifteen protective measures Sheytan
The First Measure
Eating Dates
Eat seven pressed dates in the morning before eating any food if you can. Dates should preferably be from Al-Madinah. If this is not possible, then eat any pressed dates. The Prophet SAW said, "Whoever eats seven pressed dates every morning before eating any food, will not be affected by poison or sihr!"
Al-Bukhari: 10/249, the Book of Medicine, Chapter: Treatment of sorcery with ‘Ajwah.

The Second Measure
Al-Wudhu
Sihr does not affect a person in a state of wudhu, for he is protected by an angel sent by the Merciful (Allah). Ibn 'Abbas (RA) reported: "The Prophet (Peace and Blessing upon Him) said: 'Wash these bodies, and Allah ('Azza wa Jalla) will wash you. There is not a servant who sleeps in a state of wudhu, but that an angel accompanies him in his clothes; and there is not a moment that he moves in bed, but that the angel says: 'O Allah! Forgive Your Servant, for he has slept in a clean state."
Transmitted by At-Tabarani in Al-Awsat. According to Al-Mundiri, the chain of transmission is very good (At-Targhib: 2/13)

The Third Measure
Observing congregational salat
Observing salat in congregation secures a Muslim person from Satan, and neglecting it makes Satan dominate him. And if Satan dominates a person, he harms him with sihr and other things which he can easily do. Abu Ad-Darda (RA) reported: "I heard the Prophet (Peace and Blessing upon Him) say: 'There are not three people in a town or in the countryside who do not observe congregational salat, but that Satan dominates them. Remain with the community, for the wolf seizes the solitary sheep moving away from the flock.'" Al-Bukhari: (Fath Al-Bari 3/34) and Muslim: (An-Nawawi: 6/63).

The Fourth Measure
Qiyyamu Al-layl (Observing optional salat during the night)
Whosoever wishes to protect himself against sihr should observe salat during the night. Neglecting it allows Satan to dominate a man. If he does, then you will make yourself a hotbed for the effect of sihr on you. Ibn Mas'ud (RA) reported: "When the Prophet (Peace and Blessing upon Him) was asked about his opinion of a man who slept until salatul Fajr, without waking up for qiyyamul-layl, he said that Satan urinated in the man's ear.'" Abu Dawud: 1/150 (a sound chain of transmission).
Sa'id Ibn Mansur reported : "Ibn 'Umar (RA) said, 'Not a man wakes up in the morning without having observed salatul-witr, but that a rope measuring approximately seventy cubits will be put over his head in the morning."' According to Al-Hafiz, a very good chain of transmission (Fath: 3/25)

The Fifth Measure
Isti'da - Seeking refuge with Allah ('Azza wa Jalla) upon entering the toilet
A Muslim should seek refuge with Allah ('Azza wa Jalla) upon entering the toilet, because Satan takes advantage of the Muslim's presence in the toilet in order to harm him in this filthy place which is the home of Satanic Jinn. One day, a Jinn informed me that he entered and possessed a person because he did not seek refuge in Allah upon entering the toilet. However, Allah supported me in driving him out of that person.
Furthermore, one Jinn told me that Allah
('Azza wa Jalla) has given us a strong weapon to conquer them, but we do not use it. I asked him what was it, and he said, 'the invocations laid down by the Prophet (Peace and Blessing upon Him).
It is confirmed that the Prophet (Peace and Blessing upon Him) used to say the following invocation upon entering the toilet: "Allahumma inni a'udu bika minal-khubti wal-khba'iti (O Allah! I seek refuge in you from the male female Satans.)" Al-Bukhari. (Fath Al-Bari: 1/292) and Muslim: (An-Nawawi: 4/70)

The Sixth Measure
Seeking refuge with Allah ('Azza wa Jalla) upon starting salat
Jubayr Ibn Mut'im reported: "I saw the Prophet (Peace and Blessing upon Him) say: (Allahu akbaru kabira, walhamdu lillahi kathira, wa subhanallahi bukratan wa asila)
Three times
A'uzu billahi mina shaytani rajimi min nafkhihi wa nafthihi wa hamzihi
(Allah ('Azza wa Jalla) is the Greatest, much Praise be to Allah if, and Glory be to Allah if in the morning and in the evening. I seek refuge with Allah ('Azza wa Jalla) from the Satan's arrogance, poetry, epilepsy and lunacy.) Abu Dawud (1/203); classed by Al-Albani as authentic.

The Seventh Measure
Protecting one's new wife against sihr at the time of marriage
Soon after concluding the marriage contract, put your right hand upon her forehead and say:
Allahumma inni as'aluka khayraha wa khayra ma jabaltha 'alayhi, wa a 'uzu bika min sharriha wa sharri ma jabaltha 'alayhi
O Allah! I ask you for any good that may come from her and any good that You have created in her natural disposition, and seek refuge with you from any evil that may come from her, and any evil that You have created in her natural disposition. Abi Dawud; according to Al-Albani, a sound chain of transmission (151)

The Eighth Measure
Initiating Marital Life With salat
'Abdullah Ibn Mas'ud (RA) said: "On your wedding night; that is on the night when the marriage is to be consummated for the first time; and before intercourse, do two rak'as and ask your wife to follow suit behind you, and say the following invocation:
Allahumma barik li fi ahli, wa barik lahum fiyya, allahumma ijma' bay nana ma jama 'ta bikhayr, wa farriq bay nana iza farraqta bikhayr
O Allah! Make my wife blessed for me and make me blessed for her. O Allah! If You unite us, unite us on what is good, and if you separate us, separate us on what is good.
Transmitted by At-Tabarani, and classed by Al-Albani as authentic.

The Ninth Measure
Protection from the Satan during intercourse
Ibn 'Abbas (RA) reported: "The Prophet (Peace and Blessing upon Him) said, 'If you say the following invocation during sexual intercourse, and a baby is conceived, Satan would never harm that baby."
Allahumma jannibna ash-shaytan wa jannibi ash-shytan ma razaqtana
O Allah! Keep us away from Satan, and keep Satan away from any blessing you bestow on us. Al-Bukhari (Fath Al-Bari: 1/291) and Muslim.
One Jinn told me, after his conversion to Islam and repentance, that he used to take part in a man's sexual intercourse with his wife, because that man did not say the above invocation. Glory be to Allah! We have so many valuable treasures but we do not appreciate their value.

The Tenth Measure
Make Wudhu before going to bed, recite Ayatul kursiy
Make Wudhu before going to bed, recite Ayatul kursiy and invoke Allah in bed until you fall asleep. It is confirmed that Satan told Abu Hurayrah (RA): "Whosoever recites Ayatul kursiy before going to bed, he will be guarded by Allah ('Azza wa Jalla) and no Satan will approach him throughout the night." The Prophet (Peace and Blessing upon Him) confirmed the Satan's statement and told Abu Hurayrah "Satan told you the truth, but he is a liar." Al-Bukhari (Fath Al-Bari: 6/338) and Muslim (An-Nawawi: 17/17)

The Eleventh Measure
La ilaha illallah
Say: la ilaha illallah wahdahu la sharika lahu lahulmuk wa lahulhamd wa huwwa 'ala kulli shay'in qadir 100 times after salatul Fajr.
The Prophet (Peace and Blessing upon Him) said that whosoever says it will have a reward equal to the manumission of 10 slaves, will have ten good deeds added to and ten bad deeds erased from his register, and will be protected by this supplication the Satan throughout the day until the evening. No one is better than he who says this supplication except a man who says more."

The Twelfth Measure
Entering the mosque
Upon entering the mosque, say:
A'udu billahi al-' az imi, wa biwajhihi al-karimi, wa sultanihi al-qadimi mina asshaytani ar-rajimi
I seek refuge in Allah, the All-Magnificent, His Face the All-Glorious, and His Sovereignty the All-Antiquated, from Satan the outcast.
It is confirmed that the Prophet entering the mosque said, "Whenever a Muslim says the above invocation, Satan says, 'He is defended against me for the rest of the day.'" Abu Dawud: 1/127

The Thirteenth Measure
Invocation
Say the following invocation, three times in the morning and three times in the evening:
Bismillahi al-lazi la yadhurru ma'asmihi shay'un filardhi wala fis-sama i wa huwwa as-sami'u al-'alim
In the Name of Allah, with Whose Name nothing harms, on earth and in Heavens, and He is the All-Hearer, the All-Aware.) At-Tirmidhi: 5/133

The Fourteenth Measure
Leaving the house
Upon leaving the house say:
Bismillahi tawakkaltu 'ala Allahi la hawla wala quwwata illa billahi
When you say it, you will be told (without your awareness): "You have been spared, protected and guided" The Satan will keep away from you and will tell another: "What can you do to a man who has been guided, protected and spared?" Abu Dawud: 4/325 and At-Tirmidhi: 5/154.

The Fifteenth Measure
Say: ‘A'uzu bikalimati Allahi at-tammati min sharri ma khalaq’ in the morning and in the evening. Muslim: (An-Nawawi: 17/32)
These are just few interesting protective measures against sihr in general and in particular if applied sincerely and truthfully.

Protective Measures against the evil devils
Saying Bismillah when eating and drinking
It was narrated that 'Umar ibn Abi Salamah (RA) said: The Messenger of Allah (Peace and Blessing upon Him) said:
"Say Bismillah and eat with your right hand." Fath Al-Bari, 7/88. Muslim, 3/1599, no. 108.
It was narrated that Jabir (RA) said: I heard the Messenger of Allah (Peace and Blessing upon Him) say:
"When a man enters his house and remembers Allah upon entering and when eating, the Shaytan says: 'You have no place to stay and no dinner.' If he enters and does not remember Allah upon entering, the Shaytan says: 'You have found a place to stay.' And if he does not remember Allah when eating, he says: 'You have found a place to stay and dinner.'" Sahih Muslim, 3/1598, no. 103.
It was narrated that Hudhayfah (RA) said: When we ate with the Prophet (Peace and Blessing upon Him), we would not stretch forth our hands until the Messenger of Allah (Peace and Blessing upon Him) stretched forth his hand first. We were going to eat with him one time, when a young girl came rushing as if she were being pushed. She went to stretch forth her hand to the food, but the Messenger of Allah (Peace and Blessing upon Him) took hold of her hand. Then a Bedouin came rushing as if he were being pushed, and he took hold of his hand. Then the Messenger of Allah (Peace and Blessing upon Him) said:
"The Shaytan regards food as permissible (for himself) if the Name of Allah is not mentioned over it. He brought this girl so that the food might become permissible for him through her, but I took her hand. Then he brought this Bedouin so that the food might become permissible for him through him, but I took his hand. By the One in Whose hand is my soul, his hand is in mine along with her hand." Sahih Muslim, Kitab Al-Ashribah, 3/1597, no. 102.
Then he mentioned the Name of Allah and began to eat.
It was narrated that the Sahabi Umayyah ibn Makhshi (RA) said: The Messenger of Allah (Peace and Blessing upon Him) was sitting and a man was eating who did not mention the Name of Allah until there was only one morsel left of his food. When he raised it to his mouth, he said: "In the Name of Allah at the beginning and at the end of it." The Prophet laughed and said: The Shaytan kept eating along with him, but when he mentioned the Name of Allah, he (the Shaytan) vomited what was in his belly." Sunan Abu Dawud, 3/140, no. 3768; Al-Nasa'i, 'Ami Al-Yawm Wa’l-Laylah, p. 102, no. 283.
Do you not see the importance of mentioning the Name of Allah when you start to eat or drink? The scholars (may Allah have mercy on them) are unanimously agreed that it is Mustahabb to mention the name of Allah when one starts to eat or drink, but if a person omits to do so for some reason then becomes able to do so whilst eating, it is Mustahabb to say "Bismillahi awwalahu wa akhirahu (In the Name of Allah at the beginning and at the end)." It is also Mustahabb to say it out loud so as to remind others and set an example for them.

What should be said when entering the house
It is Mustahabb to say when entering one's house:
‘Bismillah as-salamu 'alaykum’
In the Name of Allah, peace be upon you,' whether there are any humans in the house or not, because Allah says:
"But when you enter the houses, greet one another with a greeting from Allah (i .e. say: As-salamu 'alaykum — peace be on you), blessed and good." (Al-Nur 24:61)
It was narrated that Anas said: The Messenger of Allah (Peace and Blessing upon Him) said:
"O my son, when you enter upon your family, greet them with Salam; it will be a blessing from Allah upon you and upon the people of your household.' Sunan Al-Tirmidhi, Bab Maja'a Fi'l-taslim Idha Dakhala Baytihi.
It was narrated that Abu Malik Al-Ash'ari (RA) said: The Messenger of Allah (Peace and Blessing upon Him) said: "When a man enters his home, let him say:
"Allahumma inni as aluka khayra Al-mawlij wa khayr Al-makhraj, bismillahi walajna wa bismillahi kharajna, wa 'ala Allahi rabbina tawakkalna (O Allah, I ask of You the best entering and the best exit. In the Name of Allah we have entered and in the Name of Allah we have exited, and in Allah our Lord have we put our trust) then let him greet his family with Salaam. Sunan Abi Dawud, Kitab Al-Adab, 5/328, no. 5096; classed as Sahih by Al-Albani (may Allah have mercy on him).
It was narrated that Jabir ibn 'Abdullah (RA) said: I heard the Messenger of Allah (Peace and Blessing upon Him) say:
"When a man enters his house and mentions Allah when he enters and when he eats, the Shaytan says: '(You have) no place to stay and no supper.' If he enters and does not mention Allah when he eats, (the Shaytan) says: 'You have found a place to stay and supper.'" Sahih Muslim, 3/1598, no. 103.
In the Muwatta of Imam Malik it is narrated that he heard that it is Mustahabb when entering an uninhabited house to say:
"As-salamu 'alayna wa 'ala 'ibad-illah il-salihin (Peace be upon us and upon the righteous slaves of Allah)." Al-Muwatta', Kitab Al-Salam, Bab Jami' Al-Salam, vol. 2, p. 962, no. 8.

What a person should do and say if he gets angry
Anger is one of the evil whispers of the Shaytan. Allah says:
(And if an evil whisper from Shaytan (Satan) tries to turn you away (O Muhammad) (from doing good), then seek refuge in Allah. Verily, He is the All Hearer, the All Knower.) (Fussilat 41:36)
It was narrated that the Companion of the Prophet (Peace and Blessing upon Him) Sulayman ibn Surad (RA) said: I was sitting with the Prophet (Peace and Blessing upon Him) and two men traded insults. One of them turned red in the face and became furious, and the Messenger of Allah (Peace and Blessing upon Him) said:
"I know a word which, if he said it, what he is experiencing would go away. If he said, A'udhu billahi min As-shaytan il- rajim (I seek refuge with Allah from the accursed Shaytan),' what he is experiencing would go away."
They said to him: "The Prophet (Peace and Blessing upon Him) said:
"Seek refuge with Allah from the accursed Shaytan."
He said: "Am I insane?" Fath Al-Bari, Kitab Bad' Al-Khalq, Bab Sifat Iblis, 6/151; Sahih Muslim, 4/5/20, no. 109
It was narrated that 'Aishah (RA) said: The Prophet (Peace and Blessing upon Him) entered upon me when I was angry. He took hold of the end my nose and tweaked it, then he said:
"O 'Uwayyish (diminutive form of 'Aishah), say: Allahumma aghfir li dhanbi wa adhhib ghayda qalbi, wa ajirni min As-Shaytan (O Allah, forgive my sin, take away the anger in my heart, and protect me against the Shaytan)."
It was narrated that the Companion of the Prophet (Peace and Blessing upon Him) 'Atiyyah ibn 'Urwah Al-Sa'di (RA) said: The Messenger of Allah (Peace and Blessing upon Him) said:
"Anger comes from the Shaytan, and the Shaytan was created from fire. Fire is extinguished by water, so if one of you becomes angry, let him do Wudu." Sunan Abi Dawud, Kitab Al-Adab 5
It is Mustahabb for the one whom the Shaytan provokes to anger to suppress his anger and to seek refuge with Allah from the accursed Shaytan. Then he should hasten to do Wudu, and remember that the reward with Allah for suppressing his anger is great.
It was narrated from the Companion of the Prophet (Peace and Blessing upon Him) Mu'adh ibn Anas Al-Juhani (RA) that the Prophet (Peace and Blessing upon Him) said:
"Whoever suppresses his anger when he is able to act upon it, Allah will call him before all creatures on the Day of Resurrection and let him choose whoever he wants from among Al-Hur." Sunan Abi Dawud, Kitab Al-Adab, 5/137, no. 4777; Sunan Al-Tirmidhi, Kitab Al-Birr, no. 2022. [2] Sahih Al-Bukhari, Kitab Al-Anbiya', 4/179.

Prayer for protection for a child
It was narrated that Ibn 'Abbas (RA) said: The Prophet (Peace and Blessing upon Him) used to seek protection for Al-Hasan and Al- Husayn:
"A'udhu bi kalimat-Allah il-tammah min kulli shaytanin wa hammah wa min kulli 'aynin lammah"
I seek refuge in the perfect words of Allah from every devil and poisonous reptile, and from every envious evil eye.
And he would say:
"Your father (i.e., Ibrahim) used to seek protection by means of them (these words) for Isma'il and Ishaq." Sahih Al Bukhari, Kitab al Anbiya, 4/179.

What is to be said by one who is suffering from loneliness
It was narrated from Al-Walid ibn Al-Walid (RA) that he said: "O Messenger of Allah, I feel lonely." He said: "When you go to bed, say:
"A'udhu bi kalimat-illah il-tammati min ghada-bihi wa 'iqabihi wa min sharri 'ibadihi wa min hamazat As-shayatin wa an yahdurun (I seek refuge in the perfect words of Allah from His wrath and punishment, and from the evil of His slaves, and from the whispers of the devils and from their being present), then they (the devils) will not harm you or come near you." Ibn Al-Sunni: Ma Yaqul Idha Akhadha Madja'ahu, p. 201, no. 705.
It was narrated that Al-Bara' ibn 'Azib (RA) said: A man came to the Messenger of Allah (Peace and Blessing upon Him) and complained to him of loneliness. He said: "Repeat often (the words):
"Subhan Al-malik Al-quddus, rabb il-mala'ikati wa'l-ruh, jalalta Al-samawati wa'l-arda bi'l-'izzah wa'l-jabarut
Glory be to the Sovereign, the Noble, Lord of the angels and of the Spirit, You have encompassed the heavens and the earth with glory and might."
The man said it, and his loneliness disappeared. Ibn Al-Sunni, Bab my Yaqul Man Ubtuliya Bil-wahshah, p. 206, no. 633.
The best that can be said by one who is suffering from loneliness is:
"A'udhu billah il-sami' il-'alim min Al-shaytan il-rajim"
I seek refuge with Allah, the All-Hearing, All-Knowing, from the accursed Shaytan.
Allah ('Azza wa Jalla) says:
And if an evil whisper from Shaytan (Satan) tries to turn you away (O Muhammad (from doing good), then seek refuge in Allah. Verily, He is the All-Hearer, the All-Knower.(Fussilat 41:36)
It was narrated that Abu Hurayrah (RA) said: The Messenger of Allah (Peace and Blessing upon Him) said:
"The Shaytan will come to one of you and say: 'Who created such and such? Who created such and such?" until he says, 'Who created your Lord?' If it comes to that, then seek refuge with Allah and stop thinking about it."
According to a version narrated in Al-Sahih:
"The people will continue to ask questions until it is said: 'This is the creation of Allah, but who created Allah?' Whoever sees any of that, let him say, I believe in Allah and His Messengers."[1] Fath Al-Bari, Bab Sifat Iblis, 4/149
It was narrated that 'Aishah (RA) said: The Messenger of Allah (Peace and Blessing upon Him) said:
"Whoever experiences anything of this Waswas (whispers from the Shaytan), let him say: I believe in Allah and His Messengers' three times, then that will go away from him." Ibn Al-Sunni, Bab Ma Yaqul Man Ubtuliya Bi'l-waswasah, p. 181, no. 626.
It was narrated that 'Uthman ibn Abi'l-'As (RA) said: I said: "O Messenger of Allah, the Shaytan has interfered between me and my prayer and recitation, and has confounded me." The Messenger of Allah (Peace and Blessing upon Him) said:
"That is a devil called Khinzab. If you notice that, then seek refuge with Allah from him and spit drily to your left three times."
I did that, and Allah took that away from me. Sahih Muslim, Kitab As-Salam, Bab Al-Ta'awwudh Min Shaytan Al-waswasah Fil-salah, 4/1728, no. 68.
It was narrated that Abu Zamil said: I said to Ibn 'Abbas (RA): "There is something I find in my heart." He said: "What is it?" I said: "By Allah I cannot speak of it." He said to me: "Is it some sort of doubt?" He smiled and said: "No one was spared from that until Allah revealed the Words:
So if you O Muhammad are in doubt concerning that which We have revealed unto you, then ask those who are reading the Book before you. Verily, the truth has come to you from your Lord. So be not of
those who doubt (it). (Yunus 10:94)
He said to me: "If you feel anything in your heart, then say:
He is the First (nothing is before Him) and the Last (nothing is after Him), the Most High (nothing is above Him) and the Most Near (nothing is nearer than Him). And He is the All-Knower of every thing. (Al-Hadid 57:3)
In Sahih Muslim it is narrated with his Isnad in the letter of Abu'l-Qaaim Al-Qushayri that Ahmad ibn 'Ata' Al-Rawdhabari Al-Sayyid Al- Jalil said to me: I am experiencing Waswas with regard to purification (Taharah); I felt anxious one night because I had used so much water, and my heart would not rest. I said: O Lord, Your forgiveness, Your forgiveness. Then I heard a voice crying out: Forgiveness is in knowledge. Then that (anxiety) left me.
One of the scholars said that it is Mustahabb for the one who suffers from Waswas with regard to Wudu or prayer to say La ilaha ill-Allah (there is no god but Allah), for if the Shaytan hears Dhikr (remembrance of Allah), he withdraws and goes away, and the phrase La ilaha ill-Allah (there is no god but Allah) is the best of Dhikr.
And they (the scholars) said that the most effective remedy for warding off waswas is to remember Allah a great deal (Dhikr).
One of the Imams said that that it is only those who are most perfect in faith who are tested with Waswas, for the thief does not target a ruined house.
Al-Sayyid Al-Jalil Ahmad ibn Abi'l-Hawari said: I complained to Abu Sulayman Al-Darani about Waswas and he said: If you want it to stop, then whenever you notice it, rejoice, for if you rejoice in it, it will stop, because there is nothing more annoying to the Shaytan than the happiness of the believer.
What should be said by one to whom the Shaytan appears or who is frightened by him.
And if an evil whisper from Shaytan (Satan) tries to turn you away O Muhammad from doing good, then seek refuge in Allah. Verily, He is the All-Hearer, the All-Knower. (Fussilat 41:36)
And when you Muhammad recite the Qur'an, We put between you and those who believe not in the Hereafter, an invisible veil (or screen their hearts, so they hear or understand it not). (Al-lsra 17:45)

The one to whom the Shaytan appears should do the following:

1. He should say: "A'udhu billahi'l-sami' il-'alim min Al-shaytan il-rajim" (I seek refuge with Allah, the All-Hearing, All-Knowing, from the accursed Shaytan).
2. He should constantly read the Qur'an (he should have a daily Wird)
3. He should give the Adhan as for prayer.
It was narrated that Abu'l-Darda' said: The Messenger of Allah (Peace and Blessing upon Him) stood up to pray, and we heard him say:
"I seek refuge with Allah from you." Then he said: "I curse you with the curse of Allah," three times, and he stretched out his hand as if to take something. When he had finished praying, we said: "O Messenger of Allah, we heard you say during the prayer something that we have never heard you say before, and we saw you stretching out your hand." He said:
"The enemy of Allah Iblis came with a brand of fire to throw it in my face, and I said, I seek refuge with Allah from you,' three times. Then I said: I curse you with the complete curse of Allah' and he retreated three times. Then I wanted to seize him, and by Allah, were it not for the prayer of my brother Sulayman, this morning he would have been tied up and the children of the people of Madinah would be playing with him." Sahih Muslim, Bab Jawaz La’n As Shaytan, 1/385
It was narrated from Sahl ibn Abi Salih that he said: My father sent me to Banu Harithah and there was a slave of ours —or a friend of ours—with me. Someone called him by name from behind a wall, and the one who was with me looked over the wall but did not see anything. I told my father about that and he said: "If I had realized that this would happen to you I would not have sent you. But if you hear a voice, give the call to prayer, for I heard Abu Hurayrah narrating that the Messenger of Allah (Peace and Blessing upon Him) said:
"If the call to prayer is given, the Shaytan runs away." Sahih Muslim, Kitab Al-Salah, Bab Fadl Al-Adhan wa Hurub Al-Shaytan, 1/290-291.

What should be said by one who hears the crowing of a rooster, the braying of a donkey and the barking of a dog
It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah (RA) that the Prophet (Peace and Blessing upon Him) said:
"If you hear the braying of a donkey then seek refuge with Allah from the Shaytan, for it has seen a devil. If you hear the crowing of a rooster, then ask Allah of His bounty, for it has seen an angel." Sahih Al-Bukhari, Kitab Bad' Al-khalq, 4/155.
It was narrated that Jabir ibn 'Abdullah (RA) said: The Messenger of Allah (Peace and Blessing upon Him) said:
"If you hear the barking of a dog and the braying of a donkey at night, then seek refuge with Allah, for they see what you do not see." Sunan Abi Dawud, Kitab Al-Adab, 5/332, no. 5103

What should be said by one to whom ghouls appear
Ghouls (Arabic Ghul, pl. Ghilan) are a type of jinn, and it is said that they are the sorcerers of the jinn. They may appear in various forms, but their evil may be warded off by the Adhan.
It was narrated from Jabir that the Prophet (Peace and Blessing upon Him) said:
"If the ghouls appear to you, then give the call to prayer." Ibn Al-Sunni, Bab Idha Taghawwalat Al-ghilan, p. 153, no. 524.
That is because the Adhan makes the Shaytan flee

What should be said by one who stops in a new place
It was narrated that Khawlah bint Hakim (RA) said: I heard the Messenger of Allah (Peace and Blessing upon Him) say:
"Whoever stops in a place and then says: A'udhu bi kalimat-illah il-tammaati min sharri ma khalaq (I seek refuge in the perfect words of Allah from the evil of that which He has created),' nothing will harm him until he moves on from that stopping-place." Sahih Muslim, 4/2080, no. 54

How to protect yourself against witchcraft
The doctors say that prevention is better than cure. We say: The best cure for witchcraft is to protect yourself from it before it happens. If the evil witch who has sold his soul to the Shaytan seeks the help of the Shaytan to achieve his evil aims, Islam has told us how the Muslim may protect himself and his family from the Shaytan. The Muslim must follow the means described below in order to protect himself from the evil of witchcraft and its practitioners.

Strengthening oneself with faith
The Muslim must strengthen himself and affirm his belief in Tawhid. In this manner he strengthens his faith and dispels fear of anything other than Allah from his heart, and reinforces the belief that benefit and harm are both in the hand of Allah alone. The Muslim should understand that these means are like the movements of the wind, which are in the hand of their Controller and Creator, and cannot cause any harm or bring any benefit except by Allah’s Leave. Allah says concerning the witches:
(But they could not thus harm anyone except by Allah's leave.) (Al-Baqarah 2:102)
And Allah says:
And if Allah touches you with harm, there is none who can remove it but He; and if He intends any good for you, there is none who can repel His Favour. (Yunus 10:107)
Whoever is a slave to Allah, following His commands at times of hardship and of ease, focusing all his fear on Allah, is included in the Verse in which Allah says: Is not Allah Sufficient for His slave? (Al-Zumar 39:36)
Attaining complete submission and servitude to Allah ('Ubudiyyah) brings complete protection, and the Shaytan has no authority over them, as Allah says:
Certainly, you shall have no authority over My slaves. (Al Hijr 15/42)
The one who is strong in faith, protected by Allah and under His care, is rarely affected by witchcraft. The witches themselves know that their spells can ortly affect those who are weak.

Regularly reciting the Adhikr for morning and evening
One of the greatest means of protecting oneself against witchcraft is to persist in regularly reciting the Adhkar for morning and evening. They prevent against witchcraft before it happens, protecting one against it and warding off its evil, and remedying it if it does happen. Ibn Al-Qayyim (may Allah have mercy on him) said:
Among the most effective divinely-prescribed remedies for witchcraft, indeed the only thing that works, for the effects of evil souls and warding off their effects can only be by means of that which opposes and resists them, namely Dhikr, the Qur'anic Verses and Du'as which cancel out their actions and effects. The stronger they are the further they will spread. This is like the meeting of two armies, each of which has its equipment and weapons with it; whichever of them overpowers the other and subdues it will emerge the victor.
If the heart is filled with remembrance of Allah and has Du'as, Dhikrs, prayers for refuge and a Wird which it never fails to recite, in which the person focuses with his heart and mind, this will be one of the greatest means of warding off witchcraft before it strikes and it is one of the greatest remedies for it after it has struck. The witches know that their witchcraft can only fully have an effect on hearts which are weak and easily influenced, those that are ruled by whims and desires and attached to trivial matters. Hence those who are usually affected are women, children and those who are ignorant and those who live in remote regions, or whose faith, trust in Allah and belief in Tawhid are weak, and who do not have a Wird, Du'as and prayers for refuge which they recite regularly. In conclusion, their influence usually affects those who are weak and easily influenced, and are inclined towards trivial things.
They said: The victim is the one who allows witchcraft to affect him, for we find his heart is attached to things on which he focuses a great deal, so they control his heart by means of the things towards which he is inclined. The evil souls are only able to gain control over souls which are ready to be overpowered because their hearts are already inclined towards something that is convenient for those evil souls and because they are devoid of spiritual strength and are not prepared to resist. So you find them empty, with no strength or means to fight, inclined towards something convenient, so they overpower them and are able to influence them by witchcraft and other means.
Imam Ahmad and Al-Tirmidhi narrated a lengthy Hadith from Al-Harith Al-Ash'ari, in which the Prophet (Peace and Blessing upon Him) said:
"... and I enjoin you to remember Allah, for this is like a man who is being pursued by the enemy, then he comes to a strong fortress and saves himself from them. Similarly a man cannot save himself from the Shaytan except by means of Dhikr." Narrated by Ahmad in Al-Musnad, 408/202; Al-Tirmidhi, no.2867. This is a Sahih Hadith.

Eating 'Ajwah dates on an empty stomach
'Ajwah: a kind of date grown in Madinah
Al-Bukhari narrated in his Sahih from 'Amir ibn Sa'd that his father said: The Prophet (Peace and Blessing upon Him) said:
"Whoever eats 'Ajwah dates every morning will not be harmed by poison or witchcraft all that day until night comes." Fath Al-Bari, 10/249.
Someone else said: "Seven dates." And according to another report:
"Whoever eats seven 'Ajwah dates in the morning, will not be harmed that day by poison or witchcraft."
Whoever persists in eating 'Ajwah dates on an empty stomach, with the proper intention and with trust in Allah and the words of the Prophet (Peace and Blessing upon Him) will be as it were inoculated against witchcraft, and neither witchcraft nor poison will harm him. Some of the scholars explained that one of the characteristics of dates is that they are "hot", and that this is sufficient to ward off disease, but the Prophet (Peace and Blessing upon Him) mentioned specific protection against witchcraft. It seems, and Allah knows best, that dates contain something unknown to us that protects against poison and witchcraft. We believe in the word of the truthful one (the Prophet SAW), even if we do not know how that works. There is no doubt that the dates of Madinah possess special qualities, but if dates of Madinah are not available, then any dates will do Insha Allah.

One of the greatest means of protecting oneself against the evil of witchcraft is not going to witches
Because no benefit can come from them for the one who has been harmed, and the one who has nothing wrong with him will not be safe from their harm. The devils who work with the witch know full well that the Muslim man or woman who knocks at the door of the witch is weak in faith and does not put his or her trust in Allah, so it is easy for them to possess them.

Ten ways of avoiding the harm of the Jinn and protecting oneself against the devils
1. Seeking refuge with Allaah from the traps of the devils
2. Reciting Al-Falaq and An-Nas, because it was narrated that the Prophet (Peace and Blessing upon Him) used to seek refuge with Allah from the jinn and the evil eye of people, until these two Surahs were revealed
3. Reciting Ayat Al-Kursiy
4. Reciting Sura Al-Baqarah
5. Reciting the last two verses of Sura Al-Baqarah
6. Reciting the first part of Sura Ghafir
7. Frequently repeating the words:"La ilaha ill-Allah wahdahu laa sharika lahu, lahu'l-mulk wa lahu'l-hamd wa huwa 'ala kulli shay'in qadir" (There is no god but Allah alone, with no partner or associate; His is the Dominion, to Him be all praise, and He has power over all things)."
8. Frequently remembering Allah (Dhikr), which includes regularly reciting the Adhkar which are to be said in various situations and when doing certain things
9. Wudu and prayer
10. Refraining from unnecessary looking, speaking, eating and mixing with people, because going to extremes in these four matters weakens one's spirituality and makes it easy for the evil ones among mankind and the jinn to gain power over you.

List of major sins that have to do with one's inward attitude
1. Associating others with Allah (Shirk)
2. Minor Shirk (showing off)
3. Hidden anger, grudges and envy
4. Arrogance, self-admiration and showing off
5. Deceit
6. Hypocrisy
7. Wronging others
8. Turning away from people out of arrogance and scorning them
9. Indulging in that which is of no benefit
10. Greed
11. Fear of poverty
12. Being angry with the divine decree
13. Looking at the rich and venerating them because of their richness
14. Mocking the poor because of their poverty
15. Stinginess 
16. Competing in worldly gains and showing off
17. Adorning oneself for others with things with which it is forbidden to adorn oneself
18. Compromising religious principles
19. Loving to be praised for what one has not done
20. Being reoccupied with the faults of others whilst ignoring one's own faults
21. Forgetting blessings
22. Strong feelings for religions other than the religion of Allah
23. Not accepting the decree of Allah
24. Not taking the rights and commands of Allah seriously
25. Mocking the slaves of Allah, looking down on them and despising them
26. Following whims and desires, and turning away from the truth
27. Cheating and deceiving
28. Desiring the life of this world
29. Being stubborn in rejecting the truth
30. Thinking badly of Muslims
31. Not accepting the truth because it goes against one's own whims and desires, or hating those who speak the truth
32. Rejoicing in sin
33. Persisting in sin
34. Loving to be praised for doing acts of worship
35. Being content with the life of this world
36. Forgetting Allah and the Hereafter
37. Being angry when one is offended and avenging oneself even when one is in the wrong
38. Feeling safe from the plot of Allah by getting carried away in sin and relying on Allah's mercy
39. Despairing of the mercy of Allah
40. Thinking badly of Allah
41. Despairing of the mercy of Allah
42. Acquiring knowledge for worldly gain (showing off)
43. Concealing knowledge
44. No acting upon one's knowledge
45. Showing off one's knowledge out of pride
46. Undermining the position of the scholars and belittling them
47. Deliberately telling lies about Allah
48. Deliberately telling lies about the Messenger of Allah (Peace and Blessing upon Him)
49. Introducing bad ways
50. Abandoning the Sunnah
51. Not believing in the divine decree
52. Not fulfilling promises
53. Loving wrongdoing or evildoing
54. Hating the righteous
55. Offending the close friends of Allah and taking them as enemies
56. Cursing time
57. Saying a word that could cause a great deal of mischief and harm
58. Being ungrateful for blessings
59. Showing evil behaviour and foul language so as to make people fear you and avoid your evil

Makanan Kegemaran Rasulullah SAW


1. Barli - Bagus untuk demam jika dibuat sup

2. Kurma - Nabi berkata rumah yang tidak mempunyai kurma adalah seperti rumah yang tidak ada makanan

3. Buah Tin - Buah dari syurga. Boleh mengubati buasir.

4. Anggur - Nabi suka buah anggur. Ia membersihkan darah , menguatkan buah pinggang , membersihkan perut

5. Madu - Ia adalah makanan segala makanan , minuman segala minuman , ubat segala ubat. Mengubati cirit birit jika dibancuh dengan air panas , membuka selera , menguatkan perut , membuang kahak . Baik diminum waktu pagi dengan air suam.

6. Tembikai (Segala Jenis) - Nabi berkata wanita yang mengandung tidak akan gagal melahirkan anak yang baik dari segi karakter dan wajahnya.

7. Susu - Nabi berkata susu baik untuk membuang panas badan seperti tangan membuang peluh dari dahi. Menguatkan belakang , memperbaiki otak , memperbaharui pandangan mata , membuang kelupaan.

8. Cendawan - Baik untuk mata , perancang keluarga .

9. Minyak Zaitun - Rawatan kulit dan rambut. Melambatkan penuaan , merawat radang perut.

10. Buah Delima - Membersihkan tubuh dari syaitan dan bisikan syaitan selama 40 hari.

11. Cuka - Nabi selalu meminum dengan minyak zaitun 
(Trend yang popular ketika ini di restoran-restoran Itali)

12. Air - Minuman terbaik. Jika dahaga hendaklah di sedut perlahan-lahan. Jangan diteguk. Mudah mendapat sakit pada hati.

Double the Exco

i used to hold any upper posts (main boarders) in any clubs or societies that i have joined since from school. and i am right now confessing on how hard to be those "decision makers" because even you are not suppose to do those preppy paperwork or proposals, you still use your brain hardly to choose and decide for all of the members. it is not an easy job to do.

as mesmerizing 4 big posts i have had held before, those below are the reviews.

1) head girl in primary school
this was a total new experience for me. my school was full with naughty boys and the ratio would be 1 female : 10 male in a class. the experience was quite funny because i was still in no seriousness at all and i had to lead lots of immature young people (children). well, the experience was more fun and more sweet because we were fun adn we were sweet. oh really? haha.

2) head girl in secondary school
oh my gosh oh my gucci. this one was very hard for me to handle. why? because still i have to deal with the immature young people who started to become rebellious because they were away from home. there were lots of cases, starting from as simple as smoking, drinking alcohol, amuk, boys break-in girls' hostel and to the hardest such khalwat. and when those fitnah raised, i'd got totally screwed up. thanks ya Allah, those 2 years made me as tough as today. 

3) assitant program manager of community service
this program gave me a huge self-perseverance. in the middle of the progress, we'd got crisis that was so rigid and there was like not enough of time. however, we managed to handle it by bluntly turn around, back to basic and brainstormed in just a night. oh, i appreciated all of you guys for giving me support from the beginning until the very last of it. and people considered this program as a success, alhamdulillah. 

4) assistant program manager of faculty's dinner
oh masyaAllah. it is hard for me to explain this program. firstly, i wanna say this event was not a success for me. you can say the event or program is a success or not when you are the top, because you need to face the impression and achievement stated by others. there were so many problems and we were so lacking of time to review back the hurdles and it turned out not so happy for all of us. some of the seniors were talking bad about this and i was so sad and i'd got depression for about a week regarding this matter.

see? it is not that easy for becoming the second important person of anything. 

and next year, here i am who hold 2 post of exco.

welfare bureau of sciencess and logistics bureau of arc (adventure club).

what was in my thought before is i want to be apart away from arc, and i'd join sciencess because i thought of making good deeds to people while i am alive. i never thought that i would won the arc nomination, but it became true.

so here i am, again. holding 2 posts and it is a very big relieve because i wasn't in the upper main boarders. it was a big turn up for me to start again below, and to wash away and kind of rudeness and arrogant in myself. i will take this job from the heart, and it is amanah. lots and lots of people wished me tahniah and takziah. thank you for the appraisal and reminders people.

barakallah =)